Break through your barriers and work on your "Game"
Some women will only go out with guys who are taller than they are. I'm pretty short myself, so I've had to deal with this barrier. Like all other barriers, it's not impossible to get past, but it's an issue to be dealt with. There are also women who just won't date outside their own race, regardless of what that race is. Another barrier that can be gotten past with work.
All in all, I think each of us tend to focus on the barriers that come up most often for us, and see those as The Impenetrable Wall. It can become our excuse for not getting together with more women. In some cases, it can be the excuse for not even trying.
The great thing about learning how to approach and meet women is realizing that we all have strengths and weaknesses coming into this, but there are areas you have control over and can improve. I can spend all my time wishing I were taller, or spend the same time working on my approach, working on building attraction, working on projecting confidence, working on all of the pieces of the puzzle that improve with practice.
Work on your "Game". Build the skills that will help you break through your barriers, or make them fade away altogether.
Good luck.
All in all, I think each of us tend to focus on the barriers that come up most often for us, and see those as The Impenetrable Wall. It can become our excuse for not getting together with more women. In some cases, it can be the excuse for not even trying.
The great thing about learning how to approach and meet women is realizing that we all have strengths and weaknesses coming into this, but there are areas you have control over and can improve. I can spend all my time wishing I were taller, or spend the same time working on my approach, working on building attraction, working on projecting confidence, working on all of the pieces of the puzzle that improve with practice.
Work on your "Game". Build the skills that will help you break through your barriers, or make them fade away altogether.
Good luck.
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